I woke up on fire today, the couch had to go.  It was an overstuffed, under supporting monstrosity that lulled us into many a movie watching, ice cream eating wasted evening.  I had been to the gym one day and studied the results of that couch in the wall to wall mirrors with horror.  The couch had to go.  I was sure of it, but then I felt all kinds of bad for The Husband, who might miss the couch and the friends that stop by, who would have no where to sit, and The Baby, who liked to nurse on the couch at times.  I noticed myself doing extensive mind reading, second guessing, and what do you think behavior making a total mess of the whole morning.  It’s a weird dynamic, to be both fiercely driven and want everything to be OK with everyone else. Saturn being in Libra, makes me be extremely frustrated and impatient with the relationship part of the drama.  My goal, until Saturn moves on to Scorpio, is to be actively nicer.  Not just mind reading and hoping it’s all OK, but, since Saturn is all about work, putting in the work to make it all work, without sacrificing the Aries drive of course.  And ideas how???